Month: July 2019

https://thejonesy.com/2019/07/31/stealth-oppression/

It seems this arsehole govt are bringing in stealth curfews on younger drivers.

There are plans to ban younger drivers driving at night. Sadly no allowances for the rurally deprived, student nurses, care workers, carers or even those whom have never committed or likely to commit an offence. I would think however the super rich will have a get out clause, as they do for tax, paedophilia and other criminal behaviours.
When is enough truly enough? Hating this morally corrupt society more and more each day

No I am sorry but Boris Johnson has no humanity. The so called personal attacks upon him identify his flaws and help people see he is not some bungling oaf.

He is not a simple eccentric nor a cute funny man. He is calculating and I hate to use this word evil bastard. Remember him and Cameron were in the Bullingham club together and victimised people who were in their eyes poorer than them.
I agree that identifying weakness and using against the person is in many cases can be abusive and bullying, but, with this man and his ilk it is not the case. For one the opinions of you and I will never matter to him, we are but fodder, the cattle that exist only as a measure of his wealth and power, also he is sociopathic in his self belief, he makes things up and to him they become the truth. His lies are not to him lies they are as he utters them the gospel of ‘Boris the Bold’ which is how he truly sees himself. The buffoon persona is his own very calculated and refined construct.
This is a man that if he had the option would refuse the poor even the cattle cake Antoinette offered.
He is not a man of the people he is very much a part of the elite. He sees himself as royal stock and therefore entitled to rule over the rest of us scum.
He is as I have said very calculating but he is also inept when it comes to real world decision making. This man has no understanding of our lives, he has no interest in them. His morals are fed by greed and the belief that he is central to the universe.
He is in reality the most dangerous immoral prime minister we have ever had. And that title does not come easy.
We need to carry on personalising attacks upon him, we need to highlight his mistakes, his cruelty, his lack of humanity. This creature. This product of a truly derisive public school elitist system is our natural enemy. More dangerous than any terrorist. His policies will go further than his predecessors to kill and ruin lives here and abroad.
So yes promote anyyhing that shows his true self. He is not an affable fool. He is a vile self promoting greedy racist mysoginist discriminatory bastard. That is the true Boris. That is the Prime Minister of Great Britain. That is who the world sees as our leader. Brilliant isn’t it?

As a dad I am condemned by the actions of other men. Does that mean I am guilty of the actions of Hitler, pol pot, Darma or West? Are women all responsible for the guilt of Thatcher or Eva?

I tried to be the best parent I could be, but I was not allowed to be there on too many occasions. My children’s childhood was taken from me by the actions and lies of their mother. The system colluded with her, judges not checking facts and a court protocol heavily stacked against dad’s. And as an ex cafcass worker myself I can assure you it is.
I was not a drug addict. An alcoholic. But even people ill with these issues can still be a valuable parent.
I was and never will be an abuser on any level, yet my ex managed to prevent my contact with the children. I had a contact order (now child arrangement order) but she ignored it. The courts refused to enforce it. I have never had a xmas or birthday with either of my kids since we split up.
Any time I saw/see them it is me that has to puck up and drop off.
I had no say in the important decisions. But I was and always will be their father.
People tell me to write a book, I am doing just that, with the truth of what it is like to be an estranged dad or mum in this country. I will be sued no doubt due to my frankness. I do not care.
Now the government colludes with my ex even further. To the point even if by some miracle my health improved I would never be able to work again.
This country holds absent parents as the wtong doers. I have never wanted to be absent. I have always been there when the kids needed me. Always will be. I have a good relationship with them. Always have despite the vitriol and poison they are continuously fed by their bitter mother.
So all I know in my heart is I have been the best dad their mother and society allowed me to be. Please remember that when you condemn absent parents. I was never absent by choice. I always had my door open and my phone on. I fought to share their lives and when opportunity arose I would and always will drop anything to be with or there for them.
Some men and women do not try to be good parents. Some are bad parents. I know because my career was investigating them and protecting kids from them, but so many “absent parents” are only absent because the other parent ensures it.
So condemn me with your ex, I may or may not share the gender as them, I may wear the same T-shirt as them but I am not them. I am a dad that loves his children more thanife, and is only still on this planet because I am their father.
If you hate absent parents delete me. I am only capable of doing my best.
Jonesy